Dating women going through divorce

22-Apr-2018 08:24

You'd have a reason to be angry and feel abandoned if all the functions of your relationship - phone calls, video chats, etc - had stopped at short notice rather than being minimized.

Give her plenty of time, but not all the time in the world, of course.

How long will it take before she is ready for those functions again? I commend her for being brave enough to put something on hold that is distracting her from dealing with difficult emotions.

Well, you can use this time to plan (since this is long-distance relationship) who will move where and when. I'm just not sure I want to set any timelines or ultimatums.

About a month ago, she realized that she was going through a particularly difficult time getting over the marriage (she does not want to get back together with her ex -- he was secretly unfaithful during their relationship for a long period of time) and we had to majorly scale back the functions of our relationship.I have vowed to stand by and let her get through this time on her own and I am always available to her.We both know and accept that it's a bit one-sided, but I want to know if anybody has advice for me on how I can be the best man for her as possible.Don't pressure her or you will either lose her or prolong the whole process.Sera Ok, you're having "a hard time," but I guess she's having a harder time.

About a month ago, she realized that she was going through a particularly difficult time getting over the marriage (she does not want to get back together with her ex -- he was secretly unfaithful during their relationship for a long period of time) and we had to majorly scale back the functions of our relationship.

I have vowed to stand by and let her get through this time on her own and I am always available to her.

We both know and accept that it's a bit one-sided, but I want to know if anybody has advice for me on how I can be the best man for her as possible.

Don't pressure her or you will either lose her or prolong the whole process.

Sera Ok, you're having "a hard time," but I guess she's having a harder time.

Trust me, you want it done before she starts a new relationship.